When he does not want it
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Most of men may think of sex every six seconds but there are also times when they avoid having it. Some common reasons can be:
1. Medications: Certain medicines may have many side effects on the body. Some of the drugs often have a direct impact on the man’s libido levels. The drugs may have an affect in the brain due to chemical reactions and cause loss of interest in sex. It is important to note that medications that ought to deal with depression and diabetes often lead to loss of sexual desire. A way out of the situation is to consult a good doctor to know if an alternate medication is possible, that may not cause as much harm to libido level.
2. Lack of Sleep: Lack of sleep not only affects thinking capacity and performance levels, it also causes a backlash in sex life. When the daily sleep requirements aren’t met, the body experiences extreme fatigue that results in
good night’s sleep seems far more tempting as compared to having sex.
3. Hormonal Levels: If your partner shows no interest in sex, chances are it’s due to low levels of testosterone hormone. Low testosterone level is not very common among men. However, it can be a potent reason why your man might be losing interest in sex. Secondly, age is also an important factor when we speak of low testosterone levels. E.g. a middle aged man might be facing low testosterone levels owing to male menopause.
4. Identity Issues: Sometimes, due to professional and personal life, men often feel uncertain about their role in society due to identity issues. It can be issues such as dealing with a difficult boss or death of an important family member. Going through a phase of divorce also hampers men’s belief in relationships and thereby affects the desire in bed.
5. Stress: Stress has become integral part of our today’s lifestyle. There can be many sources of stress – but, a common impact of this is loss of desire. It is important for men going through such high stress levels to identify the various sources contributing to it and try to arrest them.
6. Spats with Mate: In a relationship, the man and woman may have different notions of pleasure and the degree to which it is okay to experiment. Very often, the man may want to do something that the woman is not quite comfortable with or even vice versa. Alternatively, the partners may have varied notions when it comes to things like frequency and intimacy in their relationship. These kind of disagreements lead to poor relationships and depression that has a direct impact on the man’s libido levels. While some may purposely abstain from sex to push their point of view, others may genuinely lose interest.
7. Sexual Difficulties: The man may be facing issues like Erectile Dysfunction or may also be suffering from premature ejaculation that leads to partner dissatisfaction. A few instances of poor performance affects their self esteem and it causes added pressure the next time they get into the act. With such performance expectations, there can loss of desire for sex. The reasons may be purely organic or psychological. But, it is very important to tackle it accordingly.
For example, indulging in stop and start exercise can benefit those suffering from early ejaculation and avoiding alcohol may help in dealing with erectile dysfunction.
8. Body Image: With issues like penis size being hyped to a great extent, it is bound to create self esteem issues among men who feel they are not well endowed even if that’s not the case. Many times, the partner’s body may be an issue. And if self image does not meet up to your own expectations, it could also lead to loss of desire.
9. It’s not about Sex: Many a times, other sexual habits of men can affect their desire for intercourse. Not because they have any ill effects on sex life, but because over addiction to pornography, leading to sexual activities could reduce preference for regular intercourse. When stimulation modes differ in a way that’s not possible during normal intercourse, it leads to reduced desire for sex with partner.
